Best Man Speeches and Toasts Here!

Success Story #1 Sent in by Best Man,Stephen Bell (Western Australia)

"This is an invaluable resource that I would recommend to anyone that is involved in a wedding. It saved me hours of time and made it clear in my head what i was actually required to do."

Hi

Recently I was invited to be the best man for my friend's wedding. I had originally introduced the two of them a couple of years earlier and was honored to be the best man. Although I often speak in from of small groups, I found the whole process for months ahead quite stressful. One week before the wedding I eventually downloaded from weddingspeech4u. It was certainly a breath of fresh air. After the months of trying to work out what I was meant to be saying and doing, I was fully informed in 15 minutes.

On top of this it gave me lots of great speeches that were easy to adapt to suit my situation. The wedding was a little bit different from the norm, in that it was in Thailand, as he had married a thai girl. This did mean that the ceremony was quite different and so was the order of service. Despite this I believe the information and ideas that weddingspeech4u provided were invaluable. I would have no hesitation on recommending it to others. It gave me many great intros to choose from, outlined the absolute necessities and proved paragraphs that could just have names changed to suit my friends wedding. It also came with many highly usable quotes. The biggest problem was doing only one!

By downloading the weddingspeech4u eBook, I was given ways to overcome nerves, information on what should be said, ways of saying things and orders of the speech. On top of this there were great checklists for the best man, and the bucks night. The suggested ideas for bachelor parties are something I will use again for other events, not just bachelor parties.

This is an invaluable resource that I would recommend to anyone that is involved in a wedding. It saved hours of time and made it clear in my head what i was actually required to do. Also the little tips of what the best man should have on him on the day like headache tablets is a vital resource.

I have attached a picture of myself with the maid of honor at the wedding.

Thanks again

Stephen Bell
Western Australia

Success Story #2 Sent in by Best Man, JB (USA)

"I basically learned everything I needed to know from your site."

Dan, FYI..........Just wanted to give you a quick heads up as to how my speech went.... I ordered your program the night before the wedding.

For starters I don't like to grab attention, I am shy and for the most part...self conscious..... especially when I first meet people, I once had to give a speech in grade school and got up to the mic and couldn't speak a word and not to mention 12 years ago I was a Best man and basically embarrassed myself... when the DJ had me step down to the floor to give the speech.... I basically grabbed the mic and before everyone was turned around and listening............. I said here's to Joe and Cindy .. raised my glass and handed the mic back and went to my seat........lol and then on top of it... just minutes later a psychologist that was in the audience comes up and hands me his business card and said to call him sometime....lol (no joke there)

People were left with what did he say etc.. etc... it was down right embarrassing and still to this day I'm embarrassed about it.

So basically, 12 years later I was again asked to be Best Man, again misery set in and memories of my last two speeches haunted me.... (If you want to call them speeches)

Now don't ask me why I waited until the evening after the wedding rehearsal to start preparing(especially with my history) but that's basically what I did... I ordered your program the night before the wedding, I read everything and then slept on it... got up in the morning and prepared it... took me 2 hrs.

I basically learned everything I needed to know from your site, I used cue cards .. 4 of them to be exact.. If I would have needed 6 or 8 I would have.... I learned several things from your site that would take me too long to list and besides you know what's on there... so why re-write it.... But basically I knew from your site how long the speech should be, so I had a time line to work with..... After reading everything...... I learned to basically have a opener line, a body and a toast.

I will provide you with the actual speech below to show you what I did, I was told it went excellent, I got three laughs but I have to say after the first laugh I knew I was on easy street for the most part.... The first laugh was so key for me.

On the first cue card which I numbered in the upper right hand corner (in red pen by the way) I knew by casing the room which you suggested and then by talking to the DJ real quick.. I knew where I would be giving the speech and this time it was at the head table.. which was great and way better then being asked down to the dance floor... which I would suggest you put on the site that people should get to the DJ prior and ask or request that they can give the speech at the table verses being in the center of the floor.. this alone is huge in my opinion.

So basically here is the speech per cue card............. in my writing in big bold black letters and in a format that I could read under pressure even if I had a heckler in the audience...lol

Here we go .... I was announced........... mic was handed to me and people were clapping...............

I start.............

(JB's cue cards: For the full story see our Reviews page at the bottom of this page)

Now I know it could have been longer and I had several options on what to say but....... After reading your program I basically knew what I could get away with.... I read your tips and example speeches.......... My Speech covered most of the bases and rules, Most attending knew I am not a professional speaker and many would not want to have been in my shoes, just knowing this is a great tension reliever, So basically I looked at all the possibilities and did a mini of what a great long speech would be like and I got away with it, I was told by many that night how good it was.

Now the best part is this........"You are only as good as your last speech" correct? lol well my last speech was good if not great and the two bad ones are truly in my past which is such a beautiful thing......... and in a sick kind of way I am looking forward to the pressure of having to give another speech somewhere some time in the future.

So Dan.... that's it .......that's my story, your Program helped me 100% and I could not have done it with out your program.

Only Thing I would suggest you add to the site is that people when they get to the wedding hall and people are mingling and drinking before everyone sits down... is to dart off to the bathroom a few times and go in a stall and read their cards to them selves, I first read them out loud in my car when I was alone on my way to the church and then 3 times at the Hall in the bathroom stall just to double check and get more comfortable with it.

Anyhoo... Thank You much for coming out with this program.. I hope you make millions with it.

PS I googled the heck out of wedding speeches and your's was the best looking one and the price was WELL worth the end result, best $20 bucks I have ever spent.

I am a happy man to have that behind me but to have it behind me after doing it well is like a drug.

My Best to you.

JB
Illinois U.S.A

Success Story #3 Sent in by Best Man, Rick Saunders (USA)

"Wow! Great product, it's worth every penny". I was the best man for my friends wedding and I totally forgot about the toast till the day of the wedding when the groom reminded me. I literally had about 2 hours before the wedding to prepare my speech, I was sweating bullets, so I did a quick Goggle search and yours was the 1st site I opened. I quickly paid the $19.95 and instantly went to the pre-written speeches, I copied and pasted parts from the 1st five speeches. Then I spent about 15 minutes editing this information to fit my occasion and wah-la. I had a perfect speech for the wedding. I spent a total of 45 minutes preparing this speech.

To be honest I was terrified when I realized I had to make the speech and I felt so much better knowing that I had one in writing that I thought to be very funny and sentimental at the same time. I became very nervous again when it came time for the toast, when hundreds of people are looking at you and your holding the mic. I forced out the 1st humorous line of the toast and much to my surprise everyone started to laugh and then it was a piece a cake from there.

I felt like a professional comedian because I had everybody in stitches for several minutes. Then for the rest of the evening I was a celebrity. Everybody congratulated me on such a great speech. The DJ said he does a lot of weddings and that was the best toast he has ever heard. It was a truly amazing experience and I sincerely thank you for the material. Not in a million years would I have dreamed I could have delivered such a speech."

Thanks again,

Rick Saunders
U.S.A

Success Story #4 Sent in by Best Man, David B. Turner (USA)

"Everyone came up to me during the reception to tell me what a wonderful speech that was."

The speech went off without a hitch, I had to read it being that it was three pages long. I got a few laughs and a few ahhh's for the more sentimental stuff. Everyone came up to me during the reception to tell me what a wonderful speech that was. Your program really helped me structure the speech so I am offering the final draft to your for review to add to your collection.

Thanks again,

David B. Turner
New Jersey, U.S.A

Success Story #5 Sent in by Best Man, Jarrod Alban (USA)

"Whether you have plenty of time to prepare a speech, or are in a bind like I was, I would highly recommend WeddingSpeech4u.com to assist you in writing a wedding speech that will never be forgotten."

WeddingSpeech4U is an absolute savior! I was the best man in my friend's wedding and had planned to write a great speech. Well, like most people, I got busy and kept procrastinating. The night before my flight left for the wedding, I still hadn't written a thing. I hopelessly searched the internet for assistance. I came across WeddingSpeech4u.com and was hesitant at first. I did not want to spend any money but I was desperate and couldn't find anything worthwhile on any other sites. So I took a chance and it was the best $20 I ever spent. The materials I received were extremely helpful and filled with many ideas and examples.

I was able to put together a speech on the plane and after the wedding I cannot tell you how many people came up to me and told me that my speech was the best part of the wedding. The groom cried with emotion during my speech and he didn't even cry during the ceremony! Whether you have plenty of time to prepare a speech, or are in a bind like I was, I would highly recommend WeddingSpeech4u.com to assist you in writing a wedding speech that will never be forgotten.

Jarrod Alban
Arkansas, U.S.A